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أسعد و أطيب الأوقات تقيضها بيننا

تقبلي منا أعذب و أرق تحياتي


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منتديات أمل المسلمة النسائية تُرحب بكِ أجمل ترحيب و تتمنى لكِ وقتا سعيدا بالحب كما يحبه الله ويرضاه
أهلا و سهلا بكِ لباقة زهورنا الفواحة أملين أن تسعدي بيننا ونسعد بكْ

أختي الحبيبة كل التراحيب و التحيات لا تعبر عن مدى سرورنا ، هاهي أيدينا نمدها إليكِ

أسعد و أطيب الأوقات تقيضها بيننا

تقبلي منا أعذب و أرق تحياتي


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 An Urgent Message to My Muslim Sisters in Ramadhaan-I

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Dear Muslim sisters everywhere,

I
wish all goodness for every Muslim woman on earth, and I ask Allaah The
Almighty to make you and us all to witness the month of Ramadhaan,
accept our acts of obedience in it, and assist us during it. I am
writing this especially for you, my sister, and wish to highlight some
thoughts and ideas within it that could be of benefit to you during this
blessed month.


Firstly, you should be delighted at the advent of Ramadhaan and display this happiness, for the Prophet, An Urgent Message to My Muslim Sisters in Ramadhaan-I  Icon--1,
would give glad tidings of its advent to his Companions. It is quite
okay for you to contact your relatives and neighbors to congratulate
them on this occasion and remind them of the rights of Allaah that they
should observe in Ramadhaan. The purpose of doing so is to fill
the hearts and souls of our neighbors and relatives with happiness, so
as to accustom them to loving the occasions of goodness and to
performing the Sharee‘ahobligations and voluntary acts with pleasure and love.


Fill your home with happiness as you await Ramadhaan and
make the children feel that they are about to receive a dear guest. Ask
them to clean their rooms before fasting, so that such tasks will not
prevent them from performing acts of worship. Show optimism and activity
for the advent of that month, even if you are tired or sick. Beware of
using the same statements as some other women do, such as saying that Ramadhaan is
the month of suffering and hard work because they have to cook a lot,
wash the dishes and do other tasks. If the children hear such
statements, these ideas will be inculcated in their hearts, and they
will continue to have this concept for the rest of their lives.


Ramadhaan is
the month of generosity, openhandedness, goodness and blessings. Try to
instill the love of such morals in the hearts of your children, and
repeat them frequently until they dominate their thoughts and then,
their hearts. Always describe Ramadhaan as the month of goodness and worship in which the Quran was revealed. It is also the month of forgiveness, charity and Zakaah (obligatory
charity) in which Allaah The Almighty honors His slaves and showers
them with His bounty. Thus, we should adopt these morals, and the
wealthy in particular should check the condition of the poor and treat
them generously. Let every son and daughter give charity to the poor and
needy people out of his/her own purse, and empty their wardrobes to
pick the good clothes that they no longer use or need and give these
things to those who deserve them as a gift or present, not as charity,
to avoid hurting their feelings.


Ramadhaan is
the month of affection, love and psychological and inner purity. Hence,
teach your children that it is obligatory to purify their hearts, and
that there should be no quarrels, fighting, disputes or severing the
ties of kinship in it. In Ramadhaan, friends, relatives and
neighbors visit one another, ties of kinship are maintained and people
are reconciled. Also, in it there is no cheating, deception, lying,
backbiting, tale-bearing, falsehood, calumny or saying anything but good
and permissible words, because Allaah The Almighty has no need for a
fasting person to abstain from eating and drinking if he does not
abstain from saying false things and working accordingly.


Ramadhaan is the Month of Worship

Buy
a prayer rug for every boy and girl and provide the girls with head
covers. Perfume the carpets and head covers so that their appearance and
scent is alluring and attractive. Take the children with you when you
perform the prayers, and the boys who are old enough to go to the mosque
should accompany their father, and those who are not old enough should
stand beside you until they are all used to performing the prayers and
feeling and appreciating the meaning of worship in Ramadhaan.


Ramadhaan is the Month of the Quran

We should remind ourselves of this and try to inculcate it in our children’s hearts. Ramadhaan is
the month in which the revelation began; hence, the Quran has a special
significance in this month and there should be keenness on reciting,
studying, learning and applying it. Prepare a Mus’haf (copy of the Quran) for every member of the household: Mus’hafs for
adults and small parts for the youngsters. It is preferable that a
session for recitation is held where the household, old and young, sit
and each recites part of the Quran. It would be beneficial if they
gathered to make a complete and collective recitation of the Quran. Ask
each of them about the amount he recites daily and motivate and
encourage them with gifts in order to recite the Quran frequently and
fill the house with the remembrance of Allaah The Almighty.


Ramadhaan is Not the Month of Eating and Drinking

Ramadhaan is
a time that should be used in worship. Therefore, do not waste it in
preparing many types of food, drinks, appetizers and grilled and fried
dishes. If you are not careful, you will spend your Ramadhaan in
the kitchen. I do not mean thereby that you should not care about the
food, but I mean that it should not be your and your family’s main concern.
Everyone should know that a little food is sufficient, so that we can
dedicate most of our time to worshiping Allaah The Almighty. It is very
important to organize your time. It will be very useful if you do not
allow the time of cooking and preparing food to override the time of Thikr (mentioning
Allaah), prayers and recitation of the Quran. At the same time, nothing
should override the time of cooking so as not to leave those who fast
feeling hungry afterwards.


I am not one of those who like gatherings in Ramadhaan;
however, if it is necessary, you should prepare a planned program. Tell
each of the attendees to bring with her the best thing she learnt or
heard about fasting, Taraaweeh prayers, voluntary acts of worship, Zakaah,I‘tikaaf (seclusion) and all that is related to Ramadhaan. There is no harm in specifying a particular topic to search or discuss, but of course it should be a topic pertaining to Thikr,
so that the gathering will not turn into a session of tale-bearing,
backbiting and distraction. It is also possible to prepare a quiz that
is made up of questions about Fiqh (jurisprudence), creed or
any other information that the Muslim woman needs in her religion like
the rulings of purity, prayers, fasting, the children’s upbringing or
taking care of the house, husband and family.





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